Systems for Technical Dads

Stop being a ghost at your own dinner table.

Most technical dads walk through the front door, but their brain stays at the office. You're nodding at your kids while triaging a backlog in your head. Let's fix that tonight.

Straight talk. No fluff.

Built by a TPM Actually works
Ghost Dad at Dinner Table
The Truth

You’re home, but you aren't really "Home."

I know the feeling. It’s 5:15 PM. You just closed the laptop. You walk into the kitchen, kiss your wife, and ask the kids about their day.

But you aren't listening. You're still in the Slack thread from 3:00 PM. You're mentally drafting the email you forgot to send. You're physically in the room, but you're a thousand miles away.

Your family can tell. They stop trying to talk to you because they know you aren't really there. We call it "Work Residue." And if you don't wash it off before you walk in, it ruins everything.

Be Honest

Run the Atmosphere Scan

Three questions to see if your house is running on eggshells because of your work stress.

The Eggshell Indicator

I used to be the guy who walked in the door and the room went quiet. I thought it was "respect." It was actually fear. Take this 30-second atmosphere scan.

The Gear

Tools to help you show up.

Step 1 · Free

The 7-Day Reset

Start here. One email a day for a week. Simple ways to shut your brain off before you walk through the door. No cost.

Start the Reset →
Step 3 · Application

The Reset Lab

For the guys who want a full rebuild. We take your home life and apply the same systems thinking that makes you win at work.

Apply for the Lab →

Which one do you need?

Don't overthink it. Just pick a door.

I need a full rebuild

The Reset Lab

The gear is great, but my whole house is a mess. I need a system that ensures I never go back to being that guy.

Application Only
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